The festive season is one full of rich foods, alcohol, late nights, parties and sometimes stress and anxiety. It can be a tough time of year for those of us with digestive disorders because it can really put a dampener on your Christmas spirit. Below, I’m sharing my top tips for not only surviving Christmas and New Year, but also how to enjoy it and feel as well as you possibly can!
Plan ahead
Making plans and notes can really help you prepare for the festive season. Decide where you’ll be on Christmas day, who is cooking and if you’ll have guests. Getting all of these details sorted early can help reduce stress and anxiety which will help you feel as well as you can. You can keep a notebook for Christmas, make a checklist or even buy yourself a Christmas planner. This way, you’re sure not to forget anything at the supermarket or when gift shopping for friends and family.
Get plenty of rest
Getting rest at such a busy time of year is very important. The more well-rested you are, the more you’re likely to enjoy the festive season. Staying up late every night and accepting every single invitation you get to go out may not do you any good in the end. Listen to your body, if it tells you it needs a night off, take one. It will definitely thank you for it the next day. Don’t be afraid to politely decline an invitation, or make the decision to leave earlier than others if you’re not feeling up to it. The host will be glad that you showed up, even if you take off after an hour!
Eat well
Now, we all like to indulge at Christmas, but just make sure that you know your limits and that you still get your recommended daily amounts of vitamins, minerals, water and fibre.
Have foods that you don’t eat regularly in small portions and still avoid those that make you feel unwell at other times of the year. You can always let someone know in advance to serve you up a smaller portion or leave out the sprouts if they are going to make you feel poorly. Remember, no one wants you to feel unwell and so will be more than happy to leave items off your plate as requested. If you feel uncomfortable mentioning it at the party or table, just send your host a message beforehand so that they are aware. Indulging in large amounts or rich foods and alcohol is a risk and should be avoided as much as possible. It’s far better to just have a tiny bit and savour (US: savor) it!
Follow the tips for good digestion
As with any other time of the year, use the tips for good digestion to help yourself stay well. They may sound a little over the top, but I can assure you that following them will help your body digest the food you eat as best you can.
1. Eat small portions – large portions are not wise and can often leave sufferers feeling bloated and uncomfortable. It’s much better to eat a small portion and grab a little more in a few hours if you’re feeling hungry again.
2. Eat slowly – Take your time to eat your food. Don’t rush it all down and risk gulping down air when you eat. You’ll enjoy it much better if you take your time and you’ll have less chance of stomach ache and bloating later.
3. Take small bites – Having a lot of food in your mouth is not only hugely unattractive, but it also isn’t good for digestion. One bite should be around the same size as a 50 pence piece (UK). Any bigger than that, and you’ll make it difficult for the enzymes in your saliva to help you break it down, meaning it’s much tougher on the stomach.
4. Chew, chew, chew – Chew your food…REALLY well. We are supposed to chew around 22 times with eat bite, but you may not need to chew that many times, but your food should be almost like a paste before you swallow it. The teeth help to break down the food into small pieces so that the enzymes in your saliva can start to digest it before you even swallow. This makes digestion SO much easier in the stomach and reduces your chances of digestive discomfort, nausea and cramping.
Carry an emergency kit
Since we are out and about so much during the festive period, it’t a good idea to put together a little kit to carry with you. You could fit it into your bag or the car. This kit will contain everything you need to help you if you have any problems while you’re out of the house. Now, the contents of this kit can vary and be adjusted depending on where you’re going and what symptoms you experience, but I’ve just included a few suggestions below.
1 Wet wipes/moist toilet tissue – you never know when you’re going to need to do some extra cleaning after using the bathroom and disposable wipes are perfect for when you’re not at home and can’t use a bidet or jump in the shower. REMEMBER: Do NOT flush disposable wipes down the toilet…even if they say that they’re flushable. It’s much better to dispose of them in a bin instead. Also, yes, disposable wipes are not very good for the environment and I wouldn’t recommend using them all the time, but as part of an emergency kit, I think they are perfect. You can pick up very small packs which are very hand for popping in your bag.
2. Scented toilet spray or drops – Whether it’s V.I.Poo or ‘Just one Drop’, scented toilet spray or drops can really mask a bad odour (US: odor) in the bathroom. Remember to read the instructions first as many products require you to use them BEFORE going to the bathroom. These are especially good when using a shared toilet or when you’re a guest in someone else’s home.
3. Spare underwear – Whether we like to admit it or not, lots of people with digestive disorders have accidents at some point. It may be that they stain their underwear after passing gas or that they struggle to make it to the bathroom in time. You may also want to carry a plastic zip-lock bag for any underwear that has been soiled and needs to be washed.
4. Medications – Make sure any of your medications are at hand. Perhaps you rely on Buscopan for cramping and pain, or maybe you use paracetamol. Remember NSAID painkillers such as Ibuprofen and aspirin are NOT usually recommended for people with digestive disorders. However, take your doctor’s advice for your specific case. Other medications may include antacids or Zantac (ranitidine) or similar medicines if you suffer from acid reflux or indigestion or Immodium (loperamide) if you suffer from diarrhoea (US: diarrhea). Although again, you should check with your doctor whether these medicines are recommended for you.
5. Soothing cream/ointment – If you suffer with a sore bottom because of diarrhoea or excess bile from gallbladder-related problems, you may wish to carry a tub of cream/ointment. Popular brand include Sudocrem or Vaseline. Remember, though, that these creams and ointments can stain your underwear or clothing because they tend to be quite oily/greasy and one solution is to wear a pantyliner or pad on the lining of your underwear to protect your clothing. Men can use these too, but they only really work well with mens’ Y-front style briefs rather than boxer shorts.
6. Nappy/sanitary bags – a few nappy/sanitary bags can help you dispose of soiled wipes or pads if you are using an open-top bin in the bathroom. They are often scented, too so can prevent soiled wipes from stinking up the bathroom if they end up sitting in the bin for some time.
7. A box of matches – if even despite using your odour blocking spray or drops, you’ve still caused a bit of a stink, you can use a couple of matches to burn away any unpleasant smells. Simply light a match and hold it while it burns down a little, then blow it out. You can repeat this with two or three matches if necessary. REMEMBER: Always extinguish your matches in water after use. You should use water to wet the matchsticks before disposing of them in the bin. Also, be careful when lighting matches in the bathroom to keep them away from fabrics and any flammable products such as aerosols and cleaning products.
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